How is it in the year 2020 people are afraid to tell their moms about not coming home for the holidays? How long would you have to be in a relationship before you’d consider suing them? After AJ said he wasn’t going to get a gift for his sister’s boyfriend his family told him he really should. What bail out gift do you go with for the Debate At 8. Apparently AJ hit the ‘see but don’t touch’ level of adulthood.