Serious Steps Relationships Debate At 8

AJ had a glass shattering moment when his friend told him she was giving up dating and wanted to have a kid. AJ & McCall are both children of divorce, but how does something like this qualify. AJ was once asked to be part of something similar. One piece of past advice AJ knows he could use in the past was to slow down. How long should you take a break after a serious break up before moving on for the Debate At 8?